

Another option is to turn the water off in between steps if you don’t already. So turn it off when you lather up, wash your hair, etc and only use water to rinse off after each step. It helps reduce how much you use by only having the water on for a short time overall. With a lot of showerhead attachments you can turn the water off right there so you don’t have to fiddle with the temperature controls every time.
I personally wouldn’t use greywater for plants since it’s a mixture or oils, skin, hair, and soap/shampoo. Not without treating and filtering it beforehand. Greywater always smells far more foul than blackwater in my experience.